Beliefs are not just passive thoughts. They are active justifications for how we navigate life. They form the lens through which we perceive our experiences and actions. For instance, if you believe you’re not capable of success, this belief will justify behaviors that align with failure.

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In today's fast-paced world, self-control is a critical skill that often eludes us. Whether it's resisting the lure of social media, avoiding that extra slice of cake, or sticking to long-term goals, impulse control is often a daily battle. Our brains are wired to seek instant gratification,...

Imagine stepping back and watching your thoughts, actions, and feelings as if they belonged to someone else. This isn't just a thought experiment, it's a transformative practice that can fundamentally change your life. You are an observer of your own existence, and the key to personal...

Self-confidence is foundational for personal and professional success, influencing how you perceive yourself and interact with the world. However, many struggle with self-doubt and low self-esteem, hindering their potential.

Let's explore how self-confidence develops, the symptoms of low...

Ever feel like you're drowning in responsibilities and decisions, leading to constant exhaustion and stress? This scenario is all too common for high-level managers and entrepreneurs.

Overwhelm, burnout, and decision fatigue can significantly impact your effectiveness and well-being. Let's...

In my latest conversation with Gregg Henriques, we dive deep into the intricate relationship between consciousness and identity. This episode sheds light on how our awareness, attention, self, and narrative intertwine, and how our identification patterns evolve over time.

We break down the key...

In a Psychology Today article, Dr. Gregg Henriques delves into the concept of the "identity matrix," drawing from my experiences and work to illustrate how our internal lenses shape our perceptions and experiences, often limiting our potential without us even realizing it.

Gregg and I have often...

Do you ever feel paralyzed by the fear of failing, avoiding risks and new opportunities because you’re scared of the outcome? Or perhaps you feel like time is slipping away, and you’re running out of time to achieve your dreams? This fear, combined with the relentless "treadmill of...

Understanding Perfectionism

Perfectionism is the relentless pursuit of flawlessness, often accompanied by self-critical thoughts and high expectations. While striving for excellence can be motivating, perfectionism can become a significant barrier to success and well-being. This internal struggle...