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You Are Not Your Thoughts, You Are Something Much Bigger
If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, overthinking, or fear-based decision-making, then you know what it’s like to feel trapped inside your mind.
It’s as if your thoughts have total control over your emotions, your choices, and even your...
The Invisible Cage of Your Own Thoughts
Samantha had always believed one thing about herself: I’m not good enough. It wasn’t a passing thought; it was a core belief, a silent rule that dictated her entire life.
Every job opportunity felt like a risk. Every challenge felt like an exposure of her i...
We all wear masks. Not the obvious kind, but the ones we craft so carefully that even we start to believe they’re real. The put-together version of ourselves. The successful, competent, always-in-control version. The version that shows up polished, unshaken, and untouchable.
It feels safer this way...
Control feels like security. It feels like order. It feels like the thing that will keep us safe. So we grip tighter on our careers, our relationships, our futures, believing that if we just manage everything well enough, nothing can go wrong.
We prepare for every outcome, think through every scena...
What if the greatest freedom you’ll ever experience comes not from finding yourself, but losing yourself?
Detaching from who you think you are might feel unsettling, but it’s the gateway to your fullest potential. We spend our lives crafting a self-concept. It starts with childhood labels...the sma...
When Success Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
Success is often celebrated as the ultimate goal. Yet, for many high achievers, it comes with an unexpected emotional burden: guilt.
You’ve worked hard, achieved your goals, and earned the recognition you deserve. But instead of feeling pride, there’s a voice ...
Is Perfectionism Holding You Back?
On the surface, striving for perfection seems admirable. You want to do your best, avoid mistakes, and aim for excellence. But beneath this drive often lies a deeper struggle—one that keeps you stuck, anxious, and trapped in a cycle of indecision.
Perfectionism ...
A New Year, A New Narrative
As the year comes to a close, it’s natural to reflect on what you’ve achieved—and where you’ve fallen short. Past failures often linger in our minds, shaping how we see ourselves and what we believe is possible. Maybe you think, “I always mess things up,” or “I’m not th...
For many high achievers, the journey toward success feels endless. Despite reaching major milestones, whether it’s a promotion, financial stability, or recognition, they still find themselves pushing relentlessly for more. More goals, more validation, more accomplishments. It’s as though no achievem...