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Episode 23 – How to Create a Powerful Vision

This episode of the Rob Scott Show will help you master the skill of visioning. You’ll discover why managing your expectations is crucial for avoiding disappointments.

Plus, how to overcome the feeling of “not enough” by simply creating powerful intentions and showing up for the outcomes.

If you want more clarity, and you want to be more of a leader in your life, you should listen to this episode.

Other Topics Covered in this Episode:

  • Learning How to Create a Powerful Vision
  • Distinguishing Between Expectation and Attachment
  • How To Manage Expectations
  • Defining Enlightenment
  • The Power and Cost of Expectation
  • Why Imagination is So Important
  • The Paradox of Being and Doing
  • Learning the Skill of Appreciation
  • Examining the “Not Enough” Muscle
  • Building Your Tangible Vision
  • How to Create Massive Impact and Change
  • Leading Others With Your Powerful Vision
  • How Visioning Can Improve Communication
  • Understanding What “Detached Goals” Are
  • How Intentions are Different Than Goals
  • Where Our Meaning Making Comes From
  • How Mastering Your Meaning Making Helps Others

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Episode 22 – Building Resilience and Overcoming Disaster

Life can often pull the rug right out from under us. When that happens we can either handle it with strength and maturity, or spiral into a cycle of victimhood, overwhelm and self sabotage.

On this episode of The Rob Scott Show, Sarah and Rob talk about how to dodge life’s unexpected curveballs. They discuss how to manage stressful events that happen to all of us. Also, they teach tips and share examples of how to be resilient in the face of whatever comes your way.

Rob teaches the three useful dimensions of self and shares why “you” are a holistic system. You’ll discover what areas you need to master to shift your identity. Then hear the big secret to creating profound change and transforming your life.

Other Topics Covered in this Episode:

  • Dealing with Unexpected Life Events
  • What Resilience Looks Like
  • How to Maturely Handle The Tough Stuff
  • Tangible Ways Stress Can Hold Us Back
  • Realigning Your Values
  • Why a Secure Sense of Self is Important
  • The Cycle of Self Sabotage
  • Three Useful Dimensions of Self
  • Defining What “Identity” Is
  • The Self as a Holistic System
  • How Thought/Emotions/Behavior Interact
  • Why Mindset is Homebase
  • Creating Profound Change in Your Sense of Self
  • How to Gain Emotional Resilience
  • The Secret to Transformation and Permanent Change
  • Ways to Love Yourself Through Trauma
  • Learning to Become More Mature
  • What an “Identity Shift” Is
  • Defeating Your Victim Mentality
  • Why Self Love is Important
  • How to Avoid Suffering

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Episode 21 – The Power of Defining Your Values

This episode is all about values. Rob and Sarah discuss how connecting with your values is a powerful move. Being clear on what matters will help you to be more productive and capable of taking action. They also discuss why values don’t have to be etched in stone. They can be flexible and often different in different contexts. You’ll also discover how to resolve value conflicts, both internally and externally.

Additionally, you’ll understand where values come from. Why once we are adults, we are the only ones in charge of choosing what’s valuable in our own life. Rob teaches the difference between espoused values and behavioral values. Discover why what you say you value, and how you behave might be different. Finally, you’ll learn some tips on exactly how to resolve inner conflict. As well as, a quick hack of how to achieve your goals.

Other Topics Covered in this Episode:

  • Why Your Values are Important
  • The Four Levels of Values
  • Understanding Values Conflict
  • How Knowing Values Brings Clarity
  • Where Our Values Come From
  • Knowing Values Are a Choice
  • The Evolution of Values
  • Behavioral Values vs Espoused Values
  • How to Resolve Inner Conflict
  • The Value of Ranking Your Values
  • Learn to Have More Honesty and Integrity
  • When to Prioritize Your Different Values
  • Using Your Values as a Guidelines
  • How Meaning Making Can Help You Achieve Your Goals
  • Examining Values in Different Contexts
  • Values Across Other Perspectives
  • Looking at Values in the Workplace
  • Why You Are in Charge of Picking Your Values
  • How to Have a More Conscious Filled Life

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Episode 20 – Overcoming Procrastination and Perfectionism

In this episode, Rob and Sarah discuss two big concepts: procrastination and perfectionism. You’ll learn how both of these originate, the different ways they overlap, and how to get past them.

We explore how procrastination may be trying to teach you something. Also, how your attention is crucial to ending procrastination. Plus, knowing your values can help you avoid getting stuck in a cycle of indecision.

Rob talks about how having a secure sense of self will help you gain more confidence and courage. And how breaking up with expected outcomes will combat perfectionism.

Finally, you’ll learn useful tips on how to be a powerful action taker. Growing your “self love” will create more confidence. In turn, that will give you the courage to move forward in your life in a powerful and meaningful way.

Other Topics Covered in this Episode:

  • The Real Root of Procrastination
  • How to Gain a More Confidence and a Secure Sense of Self
  • Understanding the Useful Function of Procrastination
  • The Relationship Between Procrastination and Perfectionism
  • Reasons We Fall Into These Patterns
  • Why Defining Our Values Matters
  • The Power of Essentialism and Focus
  • The Shortcut to Gain Instant Courage
  • Care Less to Do More
  • Why Technology Inspires Procrastination
  • The Power of Our Attention
  • Making Outcomes Not Matter
  • How to Have Confidence in Public Speaking
  • The Value of Real Self Love
  • How to Set Simple Expectations for Yourself
  • The Evolutionary Origin of Performance
  • How Authenticity Helps Us Take Action
  • The Relationship Between Identity and Performance

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Episode 19 – How To Improve Communication

This episode of the Rob Scott Show is about becoming a better communicator. We explore how to improve both mindful speaking and active listening skills.

This episode touches on how mindful communication will help your relationships improve. Learning to share yourself, and being present when listening creates intimacy. With this skill, you will experience fewer misunderstandings, less conflict, and less isolation. And instead find more joy, connection and wellbeing.

The goal of our communication shouldn’t be “perfect communication.” Instead we want to shoot for honest and authentic communication.

Other Topics Covered in this Episode:

  • Dissecting Meaningful Communication
  • Defining What Active Listening Is
  • Qualities of a “Good” Listener
  • How Mindfulness Can Help Communication
  • Being More Present in Conversations
  • Why Mindful Listening Can Create Connection
  • Exploring How Healthy Communication Builds Intimacy
  • The Technique of “Mirroring”
  • Authentic Speaking and Radical Honesty
  • All About Honesty and “Into-Me-See”
  • How to “Receive” in our Listening
  • Learning to Find the Wealth in Listening
  • The Difference Between Prayer and Meditation
  • A Shortcut to Finding Presence
  • The Joy in Making Intimate Connections
  • Honest and Authentic Speaking

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Episode 18 – Use Gratitude to Be Happy

This episode answers all your burning questions about how to be happier right now. Rob and Sarah do a deep dive on gratitude. They get specific on what gratitude is and how to have more of it in your life.

You’ll learn useful tips on how to recognize and embody the actual feeling of gratitude. Plus, you’ll discover why gratitude may be the “mental medicine” you need. It can be the root source in your life to feel more love, joy, and connection. Rob also teaches a simple and powerful gratitude practice called “3G3.”

They also examine how expectation can be the opposite of gratitude. You’ll learn how expectation and attachment affect your mind. Finally, you’ll hear some different ways to manage your “desire muscle.” Managing attachment allows you to have helpful expectations. As well as grow your emotional intelligence.

Other Topics Covered in this Episode:

  • Three Types of Meditation Practices
  • How to Embody the Feeling of Gratitude
  • Examining What Mindfulness Means
  • The Difference Between Thinking & Sensation
  • The Power of Being in the Present
  • How to Become More Enlightened
  • Gratitude, the “Mental Medicine”
  • Managing Where You Focus Attention
  • Comparing Down as a Survival Skill
  • The 3G3 Gratitude Practice
  • How Gratitude Facilitates Connection
  • Exploring Why Expectation Happens
  • How Expectations Can Be Beneficial to Us
  • The Mental Error that Causes Suffering
  • A Shortcut to Creating Change

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Episode 17 – Humans Greatest Misconception

This episode of the Rob Scott Show opens with a big question. What is the biggest misconception of humankind?

That question kicks off an interesting and candid discussion. We explore human attachment to belief. Plus, survival mechanisms, and how to gain the highest quality of mind.

You’ll learn exactly what attachment means, and how it’s actually a skill that protects us. You’ll also hear how awareness of what beliefs you attach too matters. It can be what keeps you stuck in a loop or propels you into being a powerful action taker.

Finally, you’ll learn about the importance of balance, and why it’s important to manage our desires. Rob also talks about duality and shares what he thinks the most detrimental mindset might be.

Other Topics Covered in this Episode:

  • The Biggest Misconception About Humans
  • The Mental Mechanism That Creates Habits
  • Enlightened leaders in our Past
  • Examining to Our Powerful Beliefs Patterns
  • How the Ego Influences Us
  • Understanding Desire and Cravings
  • Attachment as a Survival Mechanism
  • Learning Where Patterns Come From
  • The Importance of Balance
  • Navigating the We Space and the “I” Space
  • Comparing Conflict vs War
  • Awareness of Beliefs
  • Managing our Attachments
  • Learning How to Take Action in Your Life

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Episode 16 – Codependency and Self Love

Codependency shows itself in very subtle ways and is often hidden beneath other factors. Even though it’s hard to put our finger on it all the time, it will hurt us greatly if it goes unnoticed and uncorrected.

Simply defined, codependency is the “lost self.”

Culturally, we are receiving messaging that often glorifies codependency. Society celebrates the “happy ending” in such a way that encourages us to look outwards for love. And doesn’t emphasize how important it is to love ourselves first.

Often we talk about this in the setting of relationships. But codependency can also occur with processes or substances as well as with people. It’s really when we “lose ourselves” to something outside ourselves.

This episode offers a new perspective on codependency. We draw some meaningful parallels between codependency and addiction. You’ll also learn some clear symptoms of codependent relationships.

Then discover tips on how to avoid a cycle of codependency in your own life. (HINT: Self love is crucial.)

Finally, we’ll share some simple mindset shifts that will help you find and hold important boundaries. And become more aware of your own needs.

Some topics covered in this episode:

  • Explaining what codependency is.
  • How addiction is related to codependency.
  • Dissecting “identity.”
  • Why your values matter.
  • Cultural influence on codependency.
  • How awareness can prevent an identity crisis.
  • Ways to be more emotionally resilient.
  • Codependency and enmeshment.
  • The model of development.
  • Why looking outwards for our happiness is dangerous.
  • How boundaries help manage overfunctioning.
  • Tips on improving self care.
  • Stopping codependency for future generations.
  • Why self love is the answer.

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Episode 15 – Optimize for Success and Happiness

There are two very different tracks the field of psychology is interested in. Historically it’s been mostly about fixing dysfunction. Helping sick people get to “normal.” But more recently, psychologists are learning what it takes to go from normal to becoming exceptional.

In this episode we get into Martin Seligman’s “Three Lives” which are three areas we can grow and change right now. There are three clear things that can make your normal life much more exceptional.

By the end of this you’ll know how to increase everyday pleasure for yourself. You’ll know how to find more passion and flow states. And how to add more purpose and deep meaning to your life.

Improving any one of these areas will help you, but growing all three can really change the game for you.

Rob also provides a handful of quick tips to help you improve. We discuss how mindfulness can give you sustainable pleasure. What the actual difference is between passions, pleasures, and purpose. And we share a valuable mindset shift to help you discover what your purpose is.

In this episode we also discuss:

  • The two goals of psychology.
  • Three pillars of happiness.
  • Getting from suffering to normal.
  • Getting from normal to exceptional.
  • Understanding the three kinds of lives.
  • Increasing sustainable pleasure.
  • How being in experience makes us wealthy.
  • Finding what your passions are.
  • Dropping into more flow states.
  • The difference between pleasures and passions.
  • Discover what really make us happy.
  • How important purpose is to fulfillment.
  • How to simplify finding your purpose.
  • How to blend the “Three P’s.”
  • The story of Marge and her bowling team.
  • How to increase self love.
  • Rewiring our stories about ourselves.

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Episode 14 – Identity Politics

Do you lack clarity and the capability to navigate your own values? Or how to share them in a healthy, peaceful way with others?

This episode of the Rob Scott Show examines the topic of Identity Politics. It’s showing up faster and more aggressively in our world more than ever before.

We need to understand what identity politics is and why it’s needed. But also what to do when it becomes toxic. If we can be more aware of when this is happening, it’s going to be massively helpful for us.

Having this skill will help us govern ourselves better politically. It allows us to grow in our wisdom, and avoid conflict. There are ways to connect with other people, even if we don’t agree with them or come from the same origins.

Our focus should be on finding a sharing humanity. Not dividing ourselves based off characteristics we can’t control. It’s not useful to judge others based on their skin color, gender, sexual orientation, etc…

Finding zones of agreement will give us the ability to empathize. Understand that we are part of a bigger, shared space here on planet earth.

In this episode we also discuss:

    • Understanding what Identity Politics is.
    • Why it’s important to understand other groups.
    • How Zones of Agreement can be useful.
    • The history of Identity Politics.
    • The search for shared humanity.
    • About tribalism and “us” versus “them.”
    • Why are Identity Politics happening?
    • Defining virtue signaling.
    • Understanding groupthink phenomenon.
    • Becoming more aware of our values.
    • What’s required for virtuous leadership.
    • Valid and invalid arguments.
    • Ways to stay out of conflict.
    • How awareness can decrease divisiveness.

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